Today at daycare, I met another mother in the hall, and recognized The Look.I asked her how she was, an outpouring flowed from her and didn't stop for twenty minutes. She's the Other Single Mother at the Kid's school.
She seemed stressed, tired, and a little harried. The usual. But there was a look in her eye that I recognized immediately as someone who spent every hour of their day when not at work with a three-year old attached to them. She looked like someone who hadn't had a morning or evening to herself in a long, long time. I felt her pain.
I suggested that we meet up at a park this weekend, and she jumped at the idea - which was so nice. I thought I could pack some snacks and let the kids run in circles and give her some time to unwind. Then I asked her if I could have her kid over one night for a sleepover. She was a little wary, as he's been having some issues lately, and is currently seeing a behavioral therapist, but I'm feeling so healthy and relaxed lately, that some screaming toddler antics are nothing I can't handle right now. Plus, I know that a night off would restore her ten times over. At the very least, I could load both kids up with my leftover Halloween candy until they were completely wound up, and then collapsed into a deep sleep wherever they fell over.
I think it would also be nice to have more than one kid in the house. :)
I'm the relaxed one.
HA!

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