Thursday, November 30, 2006

I love yeh. I always have.

TGLETSITCAFM and his wife are talking about getting back together, after they separated for about six months.

I did the "I knew it! I knew it!" dance around the office until he smacked me across the face and I crawled back into my office chair, holding my cheek.

Now someone just needs to break up with all of his lah-dehz. 'Cause the guy has women up and down the Florida coast.

Which begs the question... men in the middle of a separation. Are they ok to date?

Most of us know when it's over. But divorce is an ugly, shape-shifting, energy-draining beast that can leave you spent, and ready to walk away from the next relationship, when it's an otherwise amazing person.

No one wants to be the Transitional Relationship. It's like being the black guy in a Sci-Fi movie. You're doomed to die, usually very early on.

What if the transition really is a just a transition? So the timing's a little off... Can you hang in there and wait for all the details to iron out? Will you be left with a whole and unscarred person?

Is that really possible?

Just askin'.

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